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发布日期:2024-09-01 00:03:49编辑:胖虎爱撩妹

去年3月,惊天动地的“梅姨案”终于水落石出,苦苦寻子15年的申军良终于见到了儿子申聪。一时间,广大网名们对梅姨团伙的口诛笔伐铺天盖地,梅姨团伙的不耻行径简直人神共愤,人人摩拳擦掌恨不能得而株之。
 
可是,纵使梅姨团伙成功落网,社会上类似的“梅姨二”,“梅姨三”等等人贩子团伙依然层出不穷。每每刷到新闻里的一个又一个拐卖孩子事件,作为父母的我们不由得呼天抢地:究竟该拿什么拯救你们,我们的孩子!
 
不得不说,孩子的安全是我们父母的第一要务。很多时候,我们无法预料危险和意外何时会降临,但是未雨绸缪,防范于未然,却是我们每个家长应该做也必须做的事情。
 
那么,作为父母的我们,该如何对孩子进行“防骗”教育,以保障孩子的安全呢?
 
 
 
01 为孩子讲述相关被骗案例
 
孩子生来如同纯洁的白纸一张,在他们眼里,仿佛世上的所有人都会像他们的爸爸妈妈一样爱护他们。正因如此,我们需要给予孩子一定的心理建设,让孩子知道世界上是有坏人存在的。那么,如何给孩子做心理建设呢?
 
首先,父母可以从带领孩子阅读开始。
 
在童话故事里,《小红帽》里有可恶的会吃人的大灰狼,《小兔子乖乖》里也有会来捉小朋友的灰太狼。当我们给孩子讲这些故事的时候,配合相应的图片或者动画片,孩子将会感受到坏蛋的凶恶。
 
除了故事里以及电视里的情节,家长也需要将身边发生的那些被拐儿童案件讲给孩子听。
 
在给孩子讲述的时候,尽量做到具体化,让孩子切身感受到骗子是如何诱拐儿童的。
 
很多时候,别人的经历能够带给我们一定的生活常识,尤其是小孩子,让他们从小了解到这个世界上除了有好人,还会有一些坏人,他们将会更为牢固地铭记于心。
 
虽然每个家长都希望让孩子感受到世界是美好的,周围的人是可爱的。但是,我们仍然需要适时地将生活的阴暗面呈现给孩子,让他们知道这个世界上是会有贪婪,猥琐以及暴力行径的。
 
唯有给孩子做好心理建设,孩子才不会在安全的边界之外无法无天,一意孤行。
 
 
02 告诉孩子不要和陌生人来往
 
当父母带领孩子阅读的时候,《白雪公主》的故事也可以反复讲给孩子听,因为白雪公主吃了坏人给的毒苹果,拿了坏人给的毒梳子,所以才中毒倒地身亡。
 
父母在讲述的过程中,一定要告诉孩子,不要和陌生人说话,不要拿陌生人给的东西,更不要跟陌生人走,否则后果会很严重。
 
孩子虽小,可在日复一日的强化之下,他们是会懂得的。除了讲故事之外,父母带孩子出去时,如果碰到一起玩的家长非要给孩子吃东西,父母需要及时阻止。
 
只有将故事里的道理带到现实中来,孩子才能领会故事的精髓,才能真正学会不和陌生人来往。
 
另外,家长需要注意的是,虽然生活是最好的教材,但是我们也需要拿捏好尺度。我们不能让孩子轻信他人,但是也不能让孩子觉得外面的世界处处危机四伏,尤其是不能对孩子进行吓唬教育。
 
吓唬孩子,虽然在一定程度上让孩子乖乖听了家长的话,但是在他们的心里,会烙上一层强烈的不安全感,这是非常要不得的。
 
 
 
03 告诉孩子如果走失,第一时间找警察或制服工作者
 
《妈妈是超人》综艺节目中,霍思燕曾带儿子嗯哼去逛商场,为了让儿子学会应对走失时的境况,霍思燕偷偷躲了起来,假装自己和嗯哼走散了。
 
当嗯哼发现妈妈不见了之后,刚开始找了两圈,后来他从容地走到超市前台,告诉工作人员他和妈妈走散了,紧接着,广播里传来了呼叫霍思燕的声音。
 
而这时的霍思燕走了出来,满脸笑容,她对嗯哼的表现非常满意。
 
当时看到这个镜头的时候,非常佩服霍思燕对儿子嗯哼的教育方式。确实,在生活中,我们不可避免地会在某个瞬间,突然和孩子走失,那当出现这种情况的时候,该怎么办呢?
 
我们不能任凭事件发生后才去想解决问题的办法,而是在这之前,在生活中,要时刻告诉孩子,如果走失了,应该第一时间找警察叔叔,或者商场里穿制服的工作人员。
 
而且,我们最好让孩子记住爸爸妈妈的手机号码,这样,警察或工作人员将会第一时间找到我们,顺利找回失散的孩子。
 
记得大学里的一个老师曾经向我们分享过她和她儿子的生活,她提到,有一天在马路上她接了一个来电,结束通话后的她突然发现儿子不见了,她当时急坏了,差点哭了出来。
 
没想到,正在她苦苦寻找之际,警察的号码打了进来。不一会儿,警察将儿子安全地带到了她的面前。
 
当时她讲述的时候,语气里尽是庆幸,庆幸自己很早之前就告诉儿子走失了该找警察叔叔,而且还让儿子将自己的手机号码倒背如流。
 
写在最后:
 
在孩子的安全问题上,没有小事。
 
作为家长的我们,一定要重视对孩子的“防骗”教育,让孩子了解到世界的阴暗面,让他们不和陌生人来往,并告诉他们如果走失,应该第一时间找警察或者工作人员。
 
而学会这些,还远远不够。对于幼小的孩子而言,纵使他们将这些规则背得滚瓜烂熟,但是仍然不能够确保我们的孩子不会受到伤害。
 
因此,家长除了要对孩子进行“防骗”教育,还应尽好监护人的职责。
 
只有当这些全都做到位了,我们的孩子才能够真正安全。
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