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小学生遇到不喜欢的老师,真的会影响成绩!简单4步教你巧妙应对

发布日期:2024-08-23 03:26:32编辑:网络收集

小学生喜欢一个老师与讨厌一个老师,对其成绩的影响有多大?女儿三年级老师“大换血”后我才算真的弄明白!

女儿小学三年级之前的语文老师,也是她的班主任,人比较年轻,无论是教学态度还是教学方式,班里的孩子们都很喜欢,女儿也特别爱上语文课,成绩也很不错!

而数学老师则年纪比较大,五十多岁,平时教学风格比较严厉,动不动就罚站,罚抄作业……班里很多孩子都害怕她,女儿也是其中一个。

起初的一段时间,女儿甚至还给我说:“害怕数学老师,不喜欢学数学”,当时我费了很大的功夫,才扭转她对该数学老师的看法以及对数学的学习态度,让她爱上数学。

没想到,一二年级数学老师挖的“坑”刚埋好,新的“坑”又来了!

今年九月份一开学,学校就更换了女儿所有的老师。而最令我苦恼的就是,这次教师队伍大换血,各科老师的教学风格,恰好跟小学一二年级颠倒过来了。

一年级年轻且温柔的语文老师,换成了现在年长且严厉的语文老师;一年级年长且严厉的数学老师,换成了现在年轻且温柔的数学老师!

本以为经历过一次不喜欢数学老师的经历,女儿能顺利过渡,不会影响语文成绩,没想到我想的太简单了。

这不,前几天月考刚结束,女儿的成绩一出来,数学成绩蹭蹭上升的同时,语文成绩直线下降,又让我紧张了起来。

看来,她又陷入了小学一二年级时的“坑”,由喜欢语文讨厌数学,变成了喜欢数学讨厌语文!

对老师的喜欢程度,会影响小学生的成绩吗?

小学生年龄比较小,对老师的依赖性比初高中生也要更强,喜欢或者不喜欢某位老师的情绪反应也比较大!

所以,在小学里,大多数学生都存在过度喜欢某个老师,或者过度不喜欢某个老师的现象。

心理学家戴维·贾米森曾对4个成绩差不多的班级进行了实验研究,实验中,他给四个班级的孩子都安排了一位新老师,并告诉1/2班的学生,新老师非常优秀;对3/4班的孩子没并有任何告知。

结果发现:一个学期过去后,1/2班的孩子成绩普遍比3/4班的孩子成绩要高!通过该实验我们可以看出,被赋予高评价的老师,更被孩子们喜欢,孩子上课时也会更专心、更认真。

孩子喜欢数学老师,就会对数学老师所教的内容感兴趣,在数学老师的课上也会表现的更积极、主动、投入,对于老师布置的任务及课后作业也会认真对待,成绩自然会有提高。

不喜欢语文老师,顺带着就不想上语文老师的课,即使上课也不会不认真听讲、积极发言,对待老师布置的背诵任务以及作业等,也很难积极对待,应付完事,甚至不完成,久而久之,成绩不下降才怪!

受年龄、认知、喜好等因素的影响,小学生不懂得学习的意义和重要性,很容易根据自己的喜好,只学自己喜欢的。

万丈高楼平地起,小学是万丈高楼的地基,地基打的牢不牢,直接决定了未来初高中的学习是否顺畅?

全面的系统的学习各科知识,才能帮助孩子打好初高中的地基。作为孩子的引导者,如果你发现孩子不喜欢某一科老师,并且顺带着不喜欢其所授课程,就应该尽到引导者的责任,帮助孩子认识到各科学习的重要性,合理的学习,以弥补其自身认知和规划的不足之处。

小学生不喜欢某科老师,家长该做什么?

以下是我亲测比较有效的几点建议,希望可以帮到各位有类似苦恼的家长!

第一步:与孩子沟通

孩子不喜欢老师,原因大多离不开两点,一是不喜欢老师的教学风格,导致不喜欢该学科;二是对该学科本身就缺乏兴趣,以不喜欢该老师为由,来逃避该学科的学习。

当发现孩子不喜欢某一科的老师时,作为家长,首先要跟孩子进行充分的沟通和交流,了解孩子是哪种原因所致的不喜欢老师。

比如,直接问孩子对该老师的讲课方式的看法,但是要注意使用积极的提问方式,不要导向;询问孩子在该老师的课上能否集中注意力,维持兴趣,是否能听懂该老师讲的内容;但是一定要记住,避免在孩子面前直接表达对该老师的看法,采用灵活开放的沟通方式,多给孩子表达的空间。

第二步:用心观察

想彻底弄清孩子为何不喜欢一个老师,仅通过跟孩子沟通是不够的,因为受年龄限制,小学生的自我意识虽然已逐渐完善,但是表达的准确度还远不如成人。

所以,我们在与孩子深入沟通的同时,还要多加用心观察。比如观察孩子在谈及该老师时的表情、语气等非语言信息,以及做该老师布置的作业时的情绪和态度。

第三步:与老师沟通

通过以上两步,我们就可以判断出孩子是真的不喜欢老师,还是对老师所教的学科不感兴趣。无论是出于哪种原因,接下来,我们要做的都是跟该科目的老师沟通。

在跟老师沟通时,前提是以理性、友善的态度与老师沟通,并且要表达出对老师专业角色的尊重,认可老师的工作,让老师感受到你不是来判断对错的,而是来真诚沟通解决问题的。

同时跟老师说明孩子的感受,邀请老师提供自己的观点,表达你愿意配合老师在家加强辅导的意愿,积极寻求两方面都能接受的解决办法。

即使是出于老师教学方式过于严格,导致孩子不喜欢该课程的学习,也不要要求老师当场做出改变,可以说“会继续观察情况”。

第四步:对孩子进行引导

依据我的经验,这一步是最重要的,也是最难做但是最有效的!

记得女儿一年级时,单纯的是因为不喜欢数学老师的教学风格,但是对数学还是有兴趣的。所以当时我就耐住性子对她进行各种引导。

抓住生活中的各种小契机,对她进行劝导,告诉她凡事不能以偏概全,不同老师有不同老师的教学风格,一个老师教几十个学生,不能让老师适应学生,得自己学着适应老师。

帮她建立正确的“老师观”,告诉她老师严格是为了学生好,无论老师是哪种教学模式,她都得尊重老师,好好听课,按时完成作业。

但凡数学有点进步,我就会给她更多的鼓励和正面信息,提高她对数学的自信心和兴趣;平时也会多抽一些时间给她补习下数学。

同时,努力调整她的学习态度,帮助她反思是否可以改善自己在课堂上的表现,以便跟老师建立更好的关系,让她逐渐的适应老师的教学模式。

这个过程比较漫长,有些方法,也需要家长根据自家孩子的特点进行调整。但总得来说,孩子不喜欢老师,家长不要简单的批评或者要求老师改变,甚至简单粗暴的要求学校更换老师,而应该从正确的角度出发引导孩子,让他适应不同的教学模式。

【最后写给家长的话】

小学生喜欢、讨厌老师,对其成绩影响甚大,作为家长,一旦发现孩子有不喜欢的老师,尤其是主科老师,一定要引起重视和关注,与孩子充分沟通,找到不喜欢老师的根本原因,对症引导,帮助孩子建立理性看待老师和学习的态度。

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