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养育女孩,一定要在这3个方面使劲富养,长大后她才能更优秀

发布日期:2024-08-22 02:58:34编辑:网络收集

“穷养儿子,富养女。”

在很多父母的传统认知里,养育女孩就要“宠”,然而事实真的是这样吗?

如果父母不了解孩子的天性,只靠物质满足女孩的需求,或许能在短期内暂时安抚女孩。但长期如此,女孩就会变得依赖和自私,甚至形成扭曲的价值观。

育儿专家、《养育女孩》的作者史蒂夫·比达尔夫曾说:“当你的女儿长大,你能看到你给她的童年与如今她拥有的力量和品质之间的关联。你感到骄傲并且非常满意。当你离开,一个优秀的女人会继续生活,她还将把你教她的一切传给她的后代。”

一个家庭里,女孩是连接过去和未来的纽带,她们的成长和教育关乎着家族的传承和发展。

脑科学研究显示:男孩的大脑前叶发育较慢,自控能力相对较弱,更易冲动,同时睾丸激素的作用使他们更具活力和攻击性。而女孩则更早发展出较强的语言能力和情感感知能力,她们的额叶和胼胝体发育较早,有助于在决策、规划和情感理解方面表现出优势。

介于以上两点原因,我们可以看出女孩的教育至关重要,且在大脑发育上有其独特性!

所以,家有女孩,若想养的优秀有出息,简单粗暴的“宠”是行不通的!

只有在以下3个方面使劲养,才能让女孩在未来的成长的道路上,更加自信、自立、自强,长大后更有出息。

01 培养女孩的阅读习惯

相信许多人都熟知苏东坡的名句“腹有诗书气自华”。

阅读,对于女孩而言,不仅是汲取知识的源泉,更是提升内在修养的必由之路。

那些博览群书的女性,往往拥有开阔的眼界和丰富的见识,面对世事总能保持沉稳与自信。

那种从容淡定、优雅脱俗的气质,并非刻意装扮或表演所能企及,而是从内心深处自然流露,令人为之折服。

比如,前几年因参加《中华诗词大会》夺得冠军,通过高考进入清华大学理科实验班的才女、学霸——武亦姝,不仅才华出众,更以其深厚的学识和淡定的气质赢得了众人的赞誉。。

出身于书香世家的她,自幼便在父母的引导下沉浸在书海中,享受阅读的乐趣。

成名之后,她依然保持着一颗平常心,拒绝浮躁与喧嚣,专注于自己的学业和兴趣。

阅读让女孩有机会接触不同的文化、思想和情感,从而丰富自己的内心世界。

正如著名女作家冰心所言:“读书好,多读书,读好书。”

通过阅读,女孩们能够汲取智慧的养分,成长为有知识、有内涵的女性。

因此,家有女孩,作为父母,我们要尽早培养她们的阅读习惯,让她们在阅读中不断充实自己,提升自己的气质和修养。

因为只有这样,她们将能够展现出真正的优雅与魅力,成为令人敬佩的女性。

02 鼓励女孩独立自主

讲一位自己朋友的故事,30岁,她在父母的催促下与自己不喜欢的人结了婚,自怀孕开始,便听从老公的建议,辞去了工作成为了一名全职宝妈。

成为宝妈后就在家呆着,除了带娃,别的事情一律也不管,没有钱就伸手给老公要,遇到困难老公解决不了,就找公婆和爸妈。

孩子6岁的时候,老公出了轨,她想离婚,可是想到自己经济不独立,还不会赚钱,离婚后不仅连自己都养不起,孩子的抚养权都可能要不到,就只能对老公的行为一忍再忍。

人都是有惰性的,若凡事都只会顺从他人,依赖他人,把一切希望寄托于他人身上,就会失去独立自主的能力,习惯于什么事都让别人帮自己做。

当然,遇到困难和挫折的时候,也只能选择逃避和推卸!

玛丽·克拉克曾说:“女性独立,不是为了比男性厉害,而是为了实现应有的梦想和发挥能力。”

独立,对于女性来说,不仅仅是一种能力,更是一种魅力。相比依赖他人的女性,那种不依赖他人,坚持做自己的女性,总是散发着独特的光芒,有着独特的魅力。

女孩不仅天生就不喜欢自己做决定,而且在成长的过程中,更容易受到各种外界因素的影响,变得缺乏自信心和独立性。

所以,作为父母,我们要更有意识地,为女孩创造更多的做主的机会,千万不要让她们成为没有主见的“乖乖女”。

03 培养一项兴趣特长

曾经在网上看到一位妈妈的自责:一向自信的大女儿,第一天上学就哭着给我电话,问我为什么小时候没有给她报一两门艺术课?因为大学第一天军训后的才艺展示环节,有的同学唱歌,有的跳舞,有的介绍自己会弹吉他,会钢琴……只有她,什么都不会!

认识一位妈妈,儿子12岁,从3岁开始,市面上的各种兴趣班,她都让儿子试了一遍,钢琴、跆拳道、二胡、吉他、美术、武术、尤克里里……最后坚持下来的只有二胡和美术。

周围很多朋友都好奇他为啥让女儿学二胡,难学不说,还土的掉渣。她说:“我不要求女儿学的多好,只盼着女儿能从中找到快乐,等她长大了,有些事情不愿意告诉我们,也不方便跟亲朋好友倾诉的时候,就可以通过二胡释放出来,不要一直憋在心里。”

一项针对数千名女孩的长期跟踪调查显示:拥有兴趣特长的女孩,在成长过程中表现出更高的自信心、更强的抗挫能力,以及更丰富的社交经验。

兴趣特长是女孩表达情感和展示才华的重要方式,有兴趣特长的女孩,无论是绘画、音乐还是舞蹈或者其他艺术形式。

可以让女孩在创作中抒发内心的情感,表达自己的思想,有更高的自信心,更强的抗挫力,更好的审美、创作以及表达能力。

这些能力,在女孩未来的学习、生活和工作中,都会发挥重要的作用。

许多杰出的女性艺术家,比如,我国现代著名女画家、雕塑家潘玉良,美国当代女艺术家和设计师芭芭拉·克鲁格,都是通过艺术找到了自己的人生方向和价值,成为了社会的瑰宝。

著名教育家陶行知先生曾说:“每个孩子都有自己的天赋和兴趣,我们应该鼓励他们去发现和追求自己的梦想。”

对于女孩来说,培养一项兴趣特长不仅能让她们在成长过程中更加自信和快乐,还能为她们的未来奠定坚实的基础。

【最后写给女孩父母的话】

教育女儿是一个充满挑战与喜悦的过程,是一件需要耐心的事情!

父母的爱与支持是女孩成长过程中最宝贵的财富,它们如同阳光雨露,滋养着她的心灵,让她在成长的道路上更加坚定、自信地前行。

家有女孩,想让她未来变得优秀、有出息,就需要多花时间,从以上几个方面入手,陪伴她,理解她,引导她。

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