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发布日期：2013-02-14 14:45:55编辑：Chen

家庭教育案例——让孩子当自已的老师

[问题归类]本案例属于对孩子兴趣爱好和良好的学习习惯的培养。

[背景交代]此事件发生在去年秋季，孩子刚进入初二年级学习。每天放学，回到家里总是喜欢泡电视，问他作业做得怎么样，他总是说，早在学校就写完了，在家里从不读书，所以，学业成绩也一般。

[过程回放]我的孩子很聪明，但最令我头痛的是不爱读书。我一直在思考：如何培养孩子读书的兴趣和习惯？我也没有找到一个好办法！

同往常一样，晚放学后，孩子带着笑声回到家。一家人在吃饭的时候，我突然想起一个念头来－－何不让孩子当我的老师呢，用这方法试试，看看效果好不好。

吃完饭后，忙完了家务，我坐下来让儿子当我的老师，培养他读书的兴趣和习惯。我说：“儿子，因为妈妈那个时候读英语不多，所以不懂英语，你来教妈妈，当妈妈的老师，行吗？”

儿子说：“不行，我又懂得不多！”

“行的，儿子。在学校，老师教你什么，你回家就教妈妈什么，妈妈保证能学会。儿子老师，不相信你的妈妈啊？”

“那我就教你学单词好了。”

“儿子，你也得把日常用语也教吧，要不然，妈妈学会了单词，却学不会对话，你让妈妈怎么说英语呀！总不能和人家对话要妈妈我一个一个单词拼吧！那样人家就会说儿子没能力，教不了妈妈了！不好吧？”

“行，我学啥教啥，每天教你一小段。”

我高兴地说：“真是好儿子，妈妈也会让做个好学生的，不会让老师失望的。”

就这样，每天我都跟儿子读半个小时的英语，虽然我学的很吃力，但看到儿子教得那么认真，而且对每篇课文都能熟读成诵，成功的喜悦于是在我的心头融化开来！

一学期下来，孩子终于养成了一回家就读书的好习惯，而且每门功课成绩都为优秀……

[解决办法] 学习习惯的培养比学习成绩更重要。没有好的学习习惯，学习成绩是不稳定的，也是不能持久的。其实养成学习的习惯很简单，主要有四条：上课认真听讲，独立完成作业，认真预习，认真复习。

其中读书习惯的培养是很重要的，大量的研究表明：阅读能力是人学习能力的基础和核心，不会阅读就不会学习，而且在中小学阶段培养阅读能力尤其重要。本案中的家长重视孩子读书习惯的培养，大胆尝试，让孩子做自己的老师，从而使孩子产生极大的好奇心理和强大的内趋力，并逐步养成了良好的读书习惯。

这种方法和策略符合儿童的心理，值得大家借鉴。不过，运用这样的方法不能凭一时心血来潮，要坚持一段时间，才有效果。习惯都与教育有关。有研究表明，70%以上的动作都是习惯动作。美国研究发现，养成一个习惯需要21天。动作习惯的养成都尚且需要时日，何况学习习惯的培养呢？

谈谈我教育孩子的一点体会

教育孩子是我们每个父母都应尽的责任和义务,而如何教育孩子又是我们每个家长时常感到困惑的难题。下面我就自己的孩子在成长教育过程中经历的几个事例，来谈谈我个人的一点肤浅的看法。

一、多一些鼓励，少一点批评，使孩子从小树立起良好的自信心

就拿写作文来说吧。我的孩子在初一上半学期时的作文还是很一般般，词汇贫乏，错别字连篇。更糟高的是，每当她写完作文时，还从来不让我看。虽然我没有严厉地批评她的不是，可心里确实很着急。于是，一方面为她订购了一些诸如《简快作文》之类的书刊，一方面督促她看一些课外书籍，渐渐培养她爱看书的习惯和兴趣。对于词汇的记忆，为了不让她感觉枯燥，有时我会把它写在孩子经常用来折千纸鹤的小方纸上，然后折成更小的方块，撒在桌子上让她随便选。

选中了打开时，则必须告诉我这个成语的意思和其中带点词的意义，说不出就让她自己去查字典。她很喜欢这样轻松随意的学习方式，有时也会反过来考我。通过慢慢的积累，黄忆舟在初二上学期时的作文已经有了较大的进步。这进步离不开张利民老师的认真教导和启发，还有不时的鼓励和支持！在去年的《姑苏杯》作文比赛中她还得了二等奖，这使她对写好作文有了更大的信心！而我也经常鼓励她，相信她会写得更好！

二、尊重孩子的选择，给孩子一些自由发展的空间

在孩子读初一、二年级时，我也像大多数家长那样，希望自己的孩子能学个钢琴或小提琴什么的。可她不知为什么就是不肯学钢琴，也不愿学其它的乐器。后来，有一天她回家很高兴地对我说：“妈妈，杨老师叫我去学二胡”，我一听，连忙说“那很好，你去吧！”。之后，就是在每周六的课外兴趣组学了一点。一年下来，没发现她有什么长进。于是我趁机说，还是学钢琴吧，可她依然坚持不肯。我没有强迫她参加钢琴组，而是让她自己选择，结果她还是选了二胡。

于是我就对她说，这是你自己选的，相信你会拉好的。后来每次回家，她都很自觉地把自己关在房间里不停地练习，而且总会跟我说一些关于刘老师教二胡的趣闻轶事。最近还告诉我暑假准备参加二胡考级呢！看来让孩子自己作选择是对的，不管最终能考上几级，只要她是很自愿、很乐意去做的，就能最大限度地发挥其潜在能力。

三、尽可能抽出时间来陪伴孩子

我们父母平时都忙于工作，而孩子平时都在学校，每天和孩子相处的时间也很有限。因此，我们做家长的无论工作再忙，也得抽出点时间来陪他们说说话。与孩子说话，为我们提供了一次了解和教导孩子的机会，也有助于我们及时掌握孩子的心理动态。他们的快乐、烦恼，我们都可以了解清楚。而经常和孩子及时沟通，他们也会把心里话告诉你，从而可以让我们更好地去关心他们、爱护他们。这又何乐而不为呢？
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