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男人给女人准备的聘礼,娘家感觉这点必不可少!

发布日期:2022-06-06 13:01:10编辑:佚名

两家人谈婚论嫁时,难免涉及到彩礼,因为彩礼是男人给女人准备的聘礼,所以娘家感觉这点必不可少。不过受现代社会影响,有些家庭感觉彩礼是表面的东西,只要两个人真正相爱,要不要彩礼都是无所谓的。

婆家有了这种想法后,会不停刁难自己儿媳,想要儿媳不要分文彩礼。虽然这种想法挺好的,但新娘子怎么可能答应呢?新娘子认为,彩礼是婆家给自己的重视,自己和娘家也会准备嫁妆,那婆家就没有理由不准备彩礼了。

当双方想到这里,在商量彩礼时,就会闹出各种矛盾,甚至落到无法结婚的结局。确实,彩礼这件事情很重要,虽然女人不应该要高额彩礼,但这是千百年以来的习俗,男人适当拿一部分彩礼是可以的吧?

从这个角度考虑,确实是可以的,因为婆家不是在做交易,即使拿出一部分彩礼,可儿媳也会带回相应的嫁妆,所以这并不是什么亏本的买卖。尽管如此,婚姻还是没有大家想的这样简单,有些事情并不是彩礼就可以解决的。

比如大家知道的改口费,这个环节可能比彩礼还重要,如果这个环节没有商量好,照样会影响小两口婚姻。受传统习俗影响,两位新人结婚时,女方会改口喊爸妈,在女方改口时,公婆应该为儿媳准备相应红包。

不过这个红包只是图个吉利,金额并不用很大,只要两家人商量好,几千几百块钱都可。但有些新娘子并不是这样想的,这些新娘子认为婆家钱是白捡来的,为她们为了满足自己所谓的虚荣心,竟把婆家当成冤大头。

01、男人向未婚妻求婚,岳母提出38万彩礼

张明和刘薇在一起三年了,虽然刘薇偶尔有点小奢侈,但张明是家公司白领,年薪能达到几十万,于是张明并没有把刘薇这点奢侈放在心上。他认为女孩子应该对自己好点,特别是他自己的女人,一定要过上好日子。

有了这种想法后,无论刘薇提出什么要求,张明总能第一时间满足自己女友。经过这几年相处,张明发现自己越来越喜欢刘薇了,为了能和刘薇成为合法夫妻,张明提出了订婚的想法,他想先订婚准备怀孕要,转过年举办婚礼。

得知男友想要订婚后,刘薇并没有第一时间答应,她说要和父母商量商量,然后再做决定。张明觉得应该通知家人,就给了刘薇几天时间,让她回家商量商量,看看她父母有什么要求。

三天后,张明突然接到刘薇电话,她表示父母同意了,不过要88000的订婚礼金,订完婚后,张明还要准备38万彩礼,外加五金。听到这个数字,张明直接慌了,虽然她知道岳母会要彩礼钱,但从来没有想过岳母会狮子大开口。

02、结婚路上再遇阻碍,想放弃时得知女友怀孕

得知这个数字后,张明有些不愿意了,虽然他家里并不缺钱,但岳母也太狠了,而且岳母家还有一个小儿子,她这完全就是为小儿子做打算。想到这里,张明就想和刘微商量一下,看看彩礼钱能不能减一半,这样他俩的生活也会好过一些。

知道张明想法后,刘薇瞬间炸了,张明年薪几十万,他父母都退休了,每个月还能拿一大笔退休金,给她38万彩礼多吗?看来张明真的像母亲说的那样,根本不爱她,否则就不会拖拖拉拉的了。

原来刘薇回家和父母商量订婚时,刘母提出了38万彩礼,在刚开始,刘薇并不同意,因为她知道母亲是有目的的,她想为自己弟弟攒彩礼钱,所以才会和张明狮子大开口。可经过母亲不停劝说后,刘薇动摇了,这才想要高额彩礼。

现在知道张明不同意后,刘薇的心思更动摇了,她感觉男朋友一点也不爱自己,他就想空手套白狼。想到这里,刘微就主动找到张明家里,想要自己和公婆谈,可公婆也接受不了这笔彩礼,三个人谈崩了。

眼见两家鸡飞狗跳,张明就想这样算了,他感觉用钱能娶到刘薇也挺不错的,只是未来要辛苦一些。有了这种想法后,张明就主动上门提亲,可刚到门口就被刘母赶了出来,对方还声称刘薇有了新对象。

听到这句话,张明傻眼了,他根本没有想到女朋友这么快就找好下家了。就在刘明打算放弃时准备怀孕要,他却突然收到女友短信,对方声称自己怀孕了。

03、未婚先孕后,娘家狮子大开口

知道刘薇怀孕后,张明特别高兴,他感觉这是老天在帮自己,是老天想要他娶美娇娘。想到这里,张明又重新回到刘薇家里,这次他终于见到了刘薇,经过刘微向他描述,他才知道,刘威根本没有找对象,这是刘母恐吓他的手段。

虽然这种手段很卑鄙,但现在最重要的事是孩子,张明就想赶紧和刘薇结婚,然后给孩子准备一个幸福的家。知道自己女儿怀孕后,刘家父母特别生气,可事情已经这样了,他们老两口只能同意女儿结婚,不过又追加了20万彩礼。

张家父母知道亲家要58万彩礼后,直接气傻了,可想到刘威肚子里的孩子,老两口只能同意把这笔钱拿出来。虽然老两口并不愿意,但他们并不是什么恶婆婆,也不想用孩子威胁刘威,只想小两口赶紧结婚。

就这样,张明和刘威的婚礼得以继续,经过两家商量后,选了一个好日子,就准备给二人举办婚礼了。可就在举办婚礼的前一天,刘母又给女儿出了一个馊主意,这个馊主意导致女儿搭上了一辈子的幸福。

04、婚礼上闹幺蛾子,新娘要8万改口费

在举办婚礼这天,两家人都满心欢喜,虽然张家拿出了高额彩礼,但老两口想到新媳妇和大孙子,马上就要进门了,心里还是挺开心的。特别是到了改口这个环节,老两口就等着新媳妇喊爸妈,然后给新媳妇包红包了。

就在新媳妇准备改口时,刘威突然喊停了,她对老两口说,想要8万块钱红包。听到这个数字,老两口傻眼了,结婚前都商量好了,在改口这个环节,老两口一人包5000红包,可谁也没有想到,刘威突然要8万。

刘薇说:“我现在怀孕了,肚子里是你们张家的大孙子,给我8万块钱是重视我们娘俩,这样我才敢嫁进你们家。”其实刘薇之所以这样说,就是刘母给出的主意,因为刘母想多要点钱,这才让女儿在这个环节开口。

张母听完后,脸色变了,先不说这笔钱到底要不要给,他们老两口现在根本没有这么多现金,该怎么给她呢?于是张家父母和张母劝说刘薇,让她先把婚结了,等到结完婚后再补上这笔钱。

听到婆婆这种承诺,刘威并不相信,她说不给钱就不结婚了。眼见四个人僵持在台上,司仪本想打个圆场,可这时刘家父母走上台来,他们扬言要给女儿要这8万块钱,否则就打掉孩子。

眼见岳母一家人这样为难母亲,张明也不想继续哄刘威了,当时就说爱咋咋地,大不了不结婚了。看着儿子态度这样强硬,刘母也不想继续服软了,为了把媳妇娶进家,他们老张家做的已经够好了,可现在对方根本不领情,那干脆别结婚了。

刘母当场开口:“我们老两口没钱,也不缺你这个闺女,你别喊爸妈了,继续喊阿姨吧。”说完这句话,刘父刘母带着儿子就离开了现场,留下张家一家人在原地后悔。

我觉得,这场婚姻的结局本身是美好的,虽然中间经历过不少波折,也因为高额彩礼闹出过矛盾,但两家最后还是妥协了,再加上新娘子已经怀孕了,所以如果不闹出这场闹剧,小两口应该是结婚了。

可事实根本没有这样如意,或许是新娘子根本没有把新郎放在心上,或许新娘子本身就是一位妈宝女,这才导致新娘子失去自己思想,全程被自己母亲支配。不得不说,这位新娘子太傻了,否则不会落得这种悲惨的结局。

不过这件事情也不是新娘子自己造成的,造成这种结局的罪魁祸首应该是刘母。因为刘某完全没有把女儿幸福放在心上,她这种行为无异于卖女儿,可刘母到现在还不自知,所以才白白葬送了女儿的幸福。

想到这里,我就想劝说一下天下的母亲了,在女儿结婚时,要考虑女儿的幸福。虽然要彩礼是应该的,要改口费是应该的,但我们要做到量力而行。特别是男方家庭条件并不好时,岳母们更要考虑小两口的婚姻了,毕竟以后是小两口在一块生活,即使我们不能给予帮助,可也不能拖后腿,否则小两口怎么会幸福呢?

刘微未婚先孕后,应该仗着身孕狮子大开口吗?

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