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孩子胆小懦弱皆因父母教育不当所致 别不信！

发布日期：2018-12-03 16:13:44编辑：白雪

说到孩子的教育问题，我觉得每一个父母都有自己不一样的教育方法或经历。尤其是性格差异大的孩子，其教育 方式是完全不一样的。比如，一个胆子大的孩子和一个胆子小的孩子在一起，我们首先要做的就是如何让胆小的孩子胆子大起来，怎么让胆大的孩子注意一下自己行为，少去欺负人家胆小的同学。

有些孩子是因为家庭环境而造成的胆小，但也有些孩子是天生就是怕生，胆小的性格。也许有些家长会认为，没关系，反正娃还小，等长大了就好了。也有些家长认为，宝宝出现这种情况，父母需要及时干预，以免越长大越懦弱。造成宝宝胆小的原因有哪些？不同年龄阶段，我们应该如何引导？

@风中飞扬：孩子今年上一年级，班里面有一个南方小孩特别淘气，其他孩子都不爱跟他玩，他总缠着咱家孩子，前天我老公去接孩子，孩子背书包时候不小心碰到那个孩子了，我儿子跟他说对不起了，他孩子居然说要找我儿子单挑，说必须得**。我老公回来跟我说了，说从来没见过那么横的孩子。昨天我去接我儿子，看见那孩子拿手指头戳我儿子脑门，还举着班牌满操场追着我儿子，我跑上去用手往那个小孩胸口挡了一下，当时那孩子那眼神老狠了看着我。后来让班主任给喊回去了。听班主任说，那个南方小孩上课到处找同学唠嗑，我儿子就坐他后面，也总跟他说话。班主任说十一回来之后，得把他俩给分开。我老公和我采取的方法是让我儿子远离他，不搭理他。如果他有动手的情况，先找老师，然后必须告诉家长。

@琪琪妈：我儿子就是那种打不还手骂不还口的孩子，开学第三天一个淘气的小朋友往他头上扬砂石，问他他说自己不小心摔倒的，差不多问了第十遍他才敢说淘气小朋友扬的，我当想的就是一定要找对方家长说一下这样情况，如果扬到眼睛里可不是闹着玩的，但冷静下来和同学闲聊以后我改变了主意，家长找老师是不明智的，老师本着多一事不如少一事的态度，孩子班级群里两个家长谈论谁被谁欺负老师一直保持沉默，找家长也是不明智的，被欺负和欺负人的家长心态不一样，再遇见不明事理的家长解决不了问题反而会滋长孩子的嚣张，一个男同事说解决的办法就是第一我不**了，第二不行我找老师，如果再有第三次我就打服你！其实孩子不受欺负的最好方法就是他自己有好朋友，有自己的小团队，而且老师一定要对你儿子好，这个就需要你和孩子共同努力了。现在我儿子有了自己的好朋友，老师对他也特别好，他不主动和淘气小朋友玩，一年级的第一个月也还算平安度过了。亲如果有时间去看看孩子下课玩耍，就觉得这些都不是事了，我看见一个孩子拉着另外一个孩子两个耳朵在操场疯跑，如果你是家长你心疼孩子么？但我看那两个孩子乐的哈哈的，儿子班里有个小女孩无论下课放学都会给我儿子一个大熊抱，如果我是小女孩妈妈就一定会告诉不要这样随便抱男孩，但女孩妈妈在每次抱上时都会开怀大笑，家庭教育不同，该让孩子独立解决问题的时候了。从你的角度上别让这些问题带给孩子压力，让他开开心心的。

造成宝宝胆小的原因有哪些？面对胆小的孩子我们该如何正确引导？

1、家长平时过于严厉

有一些孩子胆小怕事并不是天生的性格，而是受家庭环境因素的影响才导致的。过于严厉的家庭就特别容易“打造”出胆小懦弱的孩子。我们不赞成过分骄纵，但过孩子也有权力去体验或感受生活的每一个细节。如果孩子每做一样事情，父母都要求很苛刻，对于孩子来说难以完成。而此时父母还在一旁责骂甚至打骂，那孩子会因为你的行为举动而害怕，久而久之便成了一个别人眼中的‘胆小鬼’。要想让这种孩子胆大起来，家长除了要逐步放松自己的要求，也要多和孩子沟通，让他有发表自己观点或看法的权力。只有让他感觉到平等了，胆子自然就大起来了。

2、家长过分骄纵

过分骄纵的家长，与前面过于严厉的家长恰恰相反，他们什么都以孩子的想法为中心，一切都顺从孩子的要求来完成。甚至为了让孩子“省”去和其他孩子争吵或其他不必要的麻烦，本该由孩子完成的一切事物，家长都“包办”。比如，当孩子课间与同学有点小摩擦时，恰巧对方的态度比较强势，是那种得理不我饶人的孩子。这时，家长为了减少孩子“被欺负”而出面调解，帮孩子解决本该自己解决的问题。孩子完全没有因机会去处理本该自己处理的问题，碰到难题就有家长来“包办”。试问，在这种家庭长大的孩子，他胆能大起来吗？对于这种孩子，要家长要做的就是适当的放纵一下孩子，告诉孩子自己的事情自己做。当他体验到了“成功”的快感，以后遇到困难时，就自然能胆大的想办法去解决了。

3、限制孩子的社交圈

正常的社交不但能锻炼孩子的情商、为人处事的方法。对于胆小怕事、不敢出门的乖乖仔来说，也是锻炼胆子的一种方式。如果家长一直限制孩子“自由活动”，那么孩子永远不会知道，在家以外的这个社会上，究竟是好人多还是坏人多，遇到困难的时候是该如何解决、碰到坏人应该如何寻找帮助。想要孩子变得胆子大的话孩子的圈子是很重要的，家长们应该多让孩子与同龄孩子沟通交往，这样的话可以有效改变孩子胆子小的情况。

4、天生就是胆子小

这一种孩子是天生下来就胆子小的那种，这部分孩子可能是因为妈妈在怀孕期间受到严重的惊吓，或者其他原因让他很没有安全感，从而导致孩子先天性胆子小、怕事。对于这种胆小的孩子来说，最好的解决办法就是正确的引导致，让他慢慢地体会到生活当中，其实没有那么多危险。增加了安全感，胆子自然也就会大起来了。
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