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发布日期:2024-08-31 00:22:30编辑:胖虎爱撩妹

昨天,家里来了位女士,是我在月子中心时认识的儿科医生。她来,是送我买的几盒DHA。算是售后服务,顺便帮女儿做一次成长评估,一直问女儿各种问题,测试她的智力发展水平。
 
我女儿,正处在自我意识蓬勃发展的2岁多,平日里并不十分配合别人提出的要求或问题。那天却一一作答,令那位阿姨连连称赞。
 
期间,她邀女儿合影,女儿并未配合。后来,我去厨房拿点东西,那位女士便将印有产品logo的饰品戴在女儿身上,拍了照片。我虽看见了,但碍于情面没有阻止。
 
事后细想,虽然她拍这些东西只是发在朋友圈做宣传,不做他用。但肆意使用孩子的影像资料,依然存在一定的安全风险。而这件事情的最大隐患,是会破坏孩子心中与他人的边界感和防备心,为孩子埋下一颗社交风险的种子。
 
互联网时代,充斥在孩子身边的安全隐患纷繁复杂。最易被人们忽视的,并非是那些我们熟知的禁忌行为,而是那些看起来没有问题,实际上暗含危机“芝麻小事”。
 
 
1. 容易被忽略的几种育儿隐患
 
一.主动让孩子与生人互动
 
有一次,我带女儿去商场买衣服。逛到一半的时候,身后走过来一位大姐,与我女儿搭话:“哎呀,小美女真漂亮”。出于礼貌,我让女儿打招呼问阿姨好。之后,女儿停下摆弄商场的小推车,不愿意离开。谁知,那大姐也站在那里,不肯离去。
 
她先是问我女儿年龄,爱吃些什么,喜欢爸爸还是妈妈等等。我已有些反感,于是催促女儿离开。那位大姐又问,宝贝,你们家在哪里呢,家里都有谁呀?听到这里,我浑身上下都有一种不适感,于是强行抱起女儿离开。
 
假设这位大姐是个坏人,这个聊天的过程就会暴露出很多信息。而这些信息,都可能成为犯罪分子实施犯罪的突破口。
 
为了树立家教良好的形象,给坏人可乘之机,是父母“玩忽职责”的一种表现。
 
二.允许他人对孩子做出亲昵举动
 
比如,在楼下遛弯的人觉得孩子可爱,忍不住过来抱抱。抱着抱着,可能会亲一下孩子。有的家长觉得孩子讨喜是件好事,并不在意。有的家长明知这样做不对,却碍于面子不做反驳。
 
又如,家里亲戚朋友聚会的时候。孩子见了诸多亲友,家长会说:“宝贝,快去亲亲姑姑,亲亲舅舅”等。这些看似很正常的举动都存在着安全隐患。
 
这样做,会模糊孩子与他人尤其是与异性相处时的界限感,长此以往很容易被坏人侵犯或欺负。
 
三.认为小孩子不需要保护隐私
 
孩子是否具备保护隐私的意识以及是否懂得保护隐私,对他们的人身安全极其重要,但许多家长会忽略这一点。
 
比如,在小区遛弯的时候,家长毫不遮挡的把孩子放在腿上换尿不湿;在有母婴室的商场,为了方便省事,在公众场合给孩子换衣服或纸尿裤;以及让小孩子在公众场合上厕所等。
 
我们小区有个托育园,里面都是些2岁多3岁的小朋友。老师每天会带孩子去小区的游乐场互动游戏,期间,会让小朋友当众在就近的草坪上小便。我见到一次,实在不能理解。
 
家长花了钱将孩子送到托管班,是觉得托育园照顾的比家里更科学、更合理。要是看到这一幕,肺怕是都要气炸了。
 
提醒孩子保护隐私,是一件小时候不去做,大了就越难去做的事情。你想等孩子大了再教他,但孩子的思维发展不等人,习惯一旦养成就很难再改掉。
 
四.对孩子玩耍的伙伴不做任何判断
 
大人带着孩子去公园或游乐场玩,很容易与其他认识或不认识的家长聊起来,聊天的内容大多是关于孩子和家长里短。一边聊,一边看着旁边几个孩子玩的开心,而后放松了警惕。
 
这个时候,没人会注意到一起玩的小孩里是否有陌生人,大家都以为,是正在聊天的父母带来的孩子。
 
假使这些人里有不法分子,其中一个小孩就是他们的成员。孩子玩着玩着脱离了家长的视线,家长很难察觉出来。等回过神时,孩子可能已经找不到了。
 
像X光机一样扫过每一个与孩子亲近的人,是为人父母所需掌握的基本技能。
 
 
 
2. 怎样做能够避免上述安全隐患问
 
一、不主动引导孩子与生人攀谈
 
对于引导孩子和生人聊天,大家的认知未免有一些分歧。父母都希望将孩子培养的外向活泼,礼貌待人。所以会抓住各种社交机会,去锻炼孩子的沟通交际能力。
 
这样做的的确能提升孩子的社交能力,但坏处也显而易见。当孩子跟谁都自来熟,对任何人都没有防备心的时候,危险也就潜伏在了孩子身边。
 
家长应该根据不同的场合和人际关系引导孩子的社交表现。比如,和亲戚见面要热情招呼,在商场买完东西跟售货员说谢谢和再见,碰见陌生的人对孩子过分热情,则无需强迫孩子做过多回应。
 
在任何时候,孩子的安全都大于父母的面子。
 
二、教会孩子说“不”。
 
第一,拒绝陌生人拍照或拍视频的请求,果断离开;让孩子知道,我们不必迎合所有人,要注意保护自己的容貌隐私。
 
除了对孩子言语教导之外,更重要的是在相应场景下做出示范。比如我女儿被拍照片的时候,我应该直接拒绝,并讲清利害关系。孩子看到了妈妈的做法,通过模仿就可以避免这个隐患。
 
第二,拒绝其他成人对孩子做过于亲昵的举动。
 
我女儿是我家目前最小的孩子,家里上下都很疼他。大家见了面,难免会抱抱她,在她的小脸上亲一下。
 
所以,我会时常跟女儿讲,别人不可以对你做哪些事情,比如亲亲、或触碰身体的哪个部位等。如果遇到这总情况,你要走开、拒绝或者跑到妈妈身边来。讲的多了,孩子就记住了,对于以上操作已经很熟练。
 
学会说“不”的能力,是所有父母必须帮助孩子掌握的一项技能。
 
 
 
三、让孩子懂得保护身体隐私
 
保护身体隐私,是孩子学习关爱呵护自己的第一步。
 
父母要注意观察孩子的行为举止,并给予科学合理的指导。比如,告诉孩子男孩和女孩不一样;我们身体的哪些部位是不能被别人看见的等等。
 
我女儿两岁的时候开始戒纸尿裤,但是下楼玩时,我会建议她穿纸尿裤,因为楼下没有公共卫生间。后来,她不愿意穿纸尿裤了,偶尔在楼下尿急,我们也会带她去隐蔽的树丛后解决。
 
我女儿现在很执着,坚决不在公共场合上厕所。出门前她会主动去小便,如果下楼时间太长,中途会要求回家上厕所。跟她讲,小朋友不能憋尿,她会反驳我说,小朋友的屁屁不能被人家看见。
 
父母都希望孩子健康快乐的长大,但是由于时间精力不足等原因,我们很容易忽视很多潜藏在孩子身边的安全隐患。如果这些问题你以前未曾注意,那就让我们从现在开始多加注意吧!
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