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调查发现：40%的小学生不喜欢写作文，背后3点原因，值得家长反思

发布日期：2024-08-23 03:21:22编辑：网络收集

说实话，自打女儿进入三年级后，一直有件事特别让我头疼，那便是辅导孩子写作文！

因为小学三年级，语文课有了写作的要求，一篇作文短短的300字，看似不难，却整疯了不少家长与孩子。

比如我家禾禾，每周都有一项写作作业，可她每次写作业，都会不自觉的将其留到所有的作业都写完了，实在没办法时，才掏出作文本。结果，趴在书桌旁吭哧半天，才挤出一两行字，关键是我和老公还不知道如何辅导！

是所有的三年级孩子都不会写作？还是唯独我家孩子不会写作？孩子为什么不会写作？如何辅导孩子写作……

抱着这些疑问，我跟女儿的语文老师拨打了电话，经过一番交流我才发现，原来三年级的孩子不会写作文并非个例，而是普遍现象。比如女儿班里，44个学生，真正喜欢写作文，懂得写作文的孩子也不足5个。

害怕写作文，几乎成了多数学生的共同点，尤其是初学写作的小学三年级学生。

2006年，中国教育学会小学语文教育专业委员会，做过一项关于孩子对写作文喜爱程度的调查，结果发现：40%的中小学生害怕写作文、不会写作文，而70%的学生表示不喜欢老师的命题作文。

01孩子为何害怕写作文？

1）没有东西可写

禾禾每周末的语文作业，必有一项写周记的任务。所以，每逢周五放了学，她都会垂头丧气的对我说：”妈妈，老师又让我们写周记，我写什么呢？“

没有东西可写，无话可说，几乎是所有刚接触写作孩子的通病。老师告诉他们周记要写有意思的事，印象深刻的事。可她根本不知道什么是有意思的事、印象深刻的事。

就像我们小时候，老师每次让我们写快乐的童年，我们都无从下笔，因为我们觉得童年正常就是这样的啊，有啥快乐的？

可现在想想，我们的童年，上山偷鸟蛋，下河摸鱼……哪一件事不是快乐的呢?

孩子们平时没有养成留心观察，用心感受周围事物的习惯，积累的作文素材少。当然，就没东西可写！

2）不懂写作技巧

诗人艾青说:“没有技巧的诗人像什么呢?没有翅膀的鸟，永远只会可怜的并着脚跳；没有轮子的车辆，要人家背了它才走的。”

写作技巧就像鸟的翅膀和车的轮子，不懂写作技巧的孩子，虽然有东西可写，但写出来大多是流水账，就如不会飞的鸟，不会走的车！

而一旦孩子掌握了各种写作技巧，再写作时，就能够更加顺利地展开思路，下笔如有神。

3）缺乏写作的信心

不相信自己能写好作文，干脆不写，是很多小学生的通病。女儿禾禾之前也是这样，因为老师对她写的东西总不满意，让她各种改，所以她逐渐就对写作失去了信心。

孩子初学写作，除非是写作天才，否则很难写出令我们满意的作品。而有些不懂教育的家长或者老师，因此打击了孩子，导致孩子对写作产生了不愉快的情绪体验。

此外，现在很多老师喜欢采用命题作文的形式，这也在一定程度上导致了孩子不喜欢写作，对写作失去信心。

02帮助孩子摆脱害怕写作文的情绪

写作是表达思想和感受的方式，需要复杂的思维和艰苦的努力。

作为家长，我们想帮助孩子摆脱害怕写作的情绪，就要帮助孩子掌握写作的能力，尤其是在以下几个方面多下功夫！

1）培养孩子的观察能力

写作来源于生活，又高于生活。只要孩子肯用心观察，就会发现生活中可写的东西有很多。

不用刻意安排，平时接送孩子上下学的路上，带孩子去逛超市时，去游乐园玩耍时……

适当的放慢节奏，跟孩子聊聊生活中有趣的见闻，说说各自的感受。待孩子说到高兴之处，不妨给其一句合适的鼓励，比如：”看你说的这么好，这么有意思，不如用笔记录下来吧，这必定是一段美好的回忆！“

这样即能了解孩子的生活和学习情况，提升亲子关系，又可以提高孩子的语言表达以及观察能力。

2）锻炼孩子的语言表达能力

写作的本质就是用书面语言，将内心所思所想表述出来。

我们要抓住生活中的各种小契机，有效的锻炼孩子的语言表达能力，鼓励孩子表达自己的感受。

比如，冬天带孩子滑雪时，可以采用巧妙的问答的形式，引导孩子说出刚才的体会：“刚才滑雪那么刺激，儿子你不害怕吗？我都有点害怕了。”

一旦孩子很骄傲的说出自己不同的感受，我们要及时的给出肯定：”你太棒了，把刚才的细节说的这么具体，以后如果当作家，肯定能像莫言一样获得诺贝尔文学奖。“

不过需要注意的是，跟孩子讨论感受时，切忌跟孩子提及写作的事，否则孩子会很反感，尤其是游玩的时候，心情都会受到影响。

3）提升孩子的写作技巧

写作技巧是写作中非常重要的部分，它可以帮助孩子更清晰、准确地表达自己的思想和感受。

都说万事开头难，写作最难的就是开篇，但懂写作技巧的人就知道，其实写作的开头方式技巧有很多种，比如，开门见山式开头，巧设提问式开头，揭示中心式开头等等。

类似这样的作文开头方式就有20多种，别说孩子都掌握了，就算只掌握个五六个，写作就不愁开头了。还有各种修辞手法，五感法，倒金字塔结构，总分总结构等等！

不过对于普通家长来说，有趣缺乏专业的写作技巧和知识。很难在这一方面给孩子提供帮助。而作为语文老师，也不可能将这些技巧一一传授给孩子，所以语文老师一般都会建议家长给孩子入手一些有关写作技巧的书。

【最后写给家长的话】

写作是一个长期积累的过程，父母不要操之过急，克服孩子害怕写作文的问题，需要学生、老师以及家长的共同努力，并要相信只要我们肯努力，孩子早晚会爱上写作，学会写作！
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