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暑假未到,培训班就早早安排补课,是为增收?还是真有需求?

发布日期:2024-08-20 03:12:05编辑:网络收集

在开始深入讨论今天的话题前,先问各位屏幕前的网友两个问题,你家孩子有报兴趣班吗?如果有的话,你们是不是到了寒暑假也会被通知加课时?

先说说我家女儿的情况吧,她现在上小学三年级,目前还坚持学的兴趣班就有两个,一个是舞蹈,一个是书法。

平时都是周六上课,上午十一点到十二点半是一节书法,下午四点半到六点是一节舞蹈。这样安排下来,加上周末要完成的作业,勉勉强强还有点休息的时间。

当然,要想带孩子出个远门玩玩,或者想带她回老家父母那逛逛,时间肯定是不允许的。所以,我们就都把这类计划安排在了寒暑假。

然而,眼看着暑假就快来了,我觉得女儿终于要解放,可以跟我们出去逛逛了,没想到这周六,女儿上完兴趣班的课,带回来两个“噩耗”。

“跳舞要考级,暑假得培训一个多月,由原来每周一节课,改为每天一节课;书法也要强化训练,由原来一周一节课,改为一周三节。”

听了女儿的话,我第一感觉就是非常不爽,就是个简单的兴趣班,至于把孩子搞得这么累吗?为什么还要暑假补课?就算孩子有时间去,我也得有时间每天接送啊!而且这些培训班都是按课时收费的,这样一个暑假下来,一年的课时都不够刷的,肯定又要花不少钱。

对此,我跟老公还有几位兴趣班的家长,一起商量了下,大家的意思是暑假就是孩子的放松时间,培训班为了增加收入,利用暑假给孩子加码,无形中也增加了孩子的负担。

所以,最终上与不上,肯定不能任由培训班老师安排,而是从以下几个角度判断分析后再各自做各自的决定。

第一:尊重孩子的兴趣和选择

莎士比亚曾说:“学问必须合乎自己的兴趣,方才可以得益。”意思是只有当学习内容和孩子的兴趣相契合时,孩子才能获得真正的益处。

如果孩子对某个兴趣班有浓厚的兴趣,且愿意投入更多的时间去学习,那么暑假增加课时,或许对孩子来说并非坏事。

但如果孩子对此并无多大的兴趣,或者因为课时的增多,对原本感兴趣的课程产生压力,甚至厌恶的感觉,那培训班增加课时的行为,对孩子来说则有害无利。

所以,作为家长,我们要与孩子进行充分的沟通,了解孩子的想法和需求,并将培训班增加课时的行为,给孩子讲清楚,讲明白,并告诉他,如果按照培训班的安排补课,他会面对什么,得到什么,失去什么。

然后给予孩子适当的建议和指导,让孩子明白增加课时对他来说意味着什么,然后引导他做出正确的选择。

就像我家女儿,我很早前就跟老公商量好,暑假要带她去重庆玩两周,并且带她回老家待两周,如果上舞蹈还有书法培训班的话,将会不能去这两个地方,不过,也可能因此把舞蹈和书法练得更好。

第二:注意孩子的承受力

我一位朋友,给她家女儿报了8个培训班,这其中包括口才、舞蹈、绘画、书法、钢琴等各项才艺。

孩子每逢周六周日以及节假日比周中还忙碌,记得有一次接女儿学舞蹈的时候,跟她家女儿聊过几句,从她女儿的口气中,我明显的能感觉到,孩子非常疲惫。

孩子的身心承受能力是有限的,过多的培训班和课时不仅会让孩子感到疲惫,还会影响他们的学习效果和兴趣。

所以,作为家长,我们应该根据孩子的实际情况,合理安排孩子暑假期间培训班的数量和课时,确保孩子有足够的休息和娱乐时间。

比如,我家女儿,我就将她所有的兴趣班都调到了周六这一天,为的就是能在周日这天的,带她出去逛一逛,让孩子在假期既能学到知识,又能得到充分的休息和娱乐。

第三:考虑培训班的质量和效果

相信各位家长都懂得一个道理,那就是学习效果的提升不仅仅依赖于投入学习的时间和长短。

就比如,有的孩子每天花费大量的时间坐在书桌前,埋头苦读,但成绩却不见提高;但有的孩子,看似学习时间不多,但却能在考试中获得优异的成绩。

这其中的关键在于,学习效果不仅仅取决于学习时间的长短,更取决于孩子对所学内容的兴趣,学习方法的有效性,以及学习内容的针对性。

只有找到适合孩子的学习方法,提高学习效率,才能真正实现学习效果的提升。所以,兴趣班老师增加课时并不意味着就能提高学习效果。

如果培训班的教学质量不高,或者教学方法不当,那么增加课时只会浪费孩子的时间,我们的金钱,所以,家长在选择培训班,以及对待培训班增加课时的行为时,应该慎重考虑培训班的教学质量,师资力量和教学方法等方面的内容。

第四:考虑家庭经济承受能力

家庭经济能力决定了我们能够为孩子提供多少学习资源,如果家庭条件允许,以上三点,各位家长可以参考着灵活的做选择。

但如果家庭经济能力有限,那么家长就需要慎重的考虑了,毕竟教育投资是一项长期且重大的决策。

我女儿的舞蹈培训班,一节课是90块钱,正常情况下,寒暑假不加课时,一年的费用大概是5000元左右,书法课稍微便宜点,在4500元。

再加上考级、表演以及其他一些费用,这两个培训班下来,一年大概要花费不到一万五千元。

但如果我们同意老师的这个增加课时计划的话,那一个暑假就要刷掉将近40节课,再加上考级就要花掉4000元,书法课相对少点,也得两千多,这也就意味着两个培训班暑假要花费6000多元。

所以,基于以上四个因素,我和老公最终决定,不按照培训老师的要求进行增加课时进行补课,而选择在暑假带孩子游玩归来后,再进行两周的补课。

【写在最后】

望子成龙、望女成凤,是每位父母最大的期盼。

各个辅导机构,正是抓住了父母的这个心理,才有恃无恐的以为孩子未来着想的名义增加课时,给孩子补课。

然而,为人父母,我们即使再期盼孩子能学有所成,也要保持理性,在尊重孩子的前提下,综合考虑其它因素,做出理智的选择,而非被他人裹挟着做出非理智的选择。

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