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德国用3张对比照片,进行爱的教育启蒙;我们要如何引导孩子呢?

发布日期:2024-06-12 11:19:20编辑:小编

前段时间沸沸扬扬的胡同学神秘失踪事件,终于随着时间的推移,我们拨开了迷雾,见到了真相。

正是青春年少的阳光少年,因为一时的挫败和失落,以及心中的压抑无法得到缓释,让自己走上了不归路,着实让人心疼。

2021年2月18日,扬州的一名11岁女孩,因为马上要开学作业没有完成,被妈妈训斥,一怒之下从所处的高楼一跃而下,香消玉殒,留给父母无尽的哀怨与懊悔。

2020年9月的某一天,因为孩子在学校表现不佳,被老师请到学校去的家长一怒之下在学校走廊打了孩子一巴掌,这个14岁的男孩毫不犹豫的从教学楼5楼毅然跳下。

……类似这样让人痛惜的事情太多,不忍复述,不忍目睹。

让孩子们珍惜生命、学会“爱”:爱人、仁爱、爱自己、爱这个美丽的社会的生命教育、爱的教育刻不容缓。

德国在1983年的时候,已经在孩子的思品课上,开始了“爱的教育”。

一年级思品教材的第一页,出现了二战时期孩子所居住的社区照片。

照片上标了路名,老师引导孩子在图片上找到自己家所在的道路。孩子会在家门口看到很大的弹坑、遍地的尸体……

第二页则是社区现在的模样。

老师会询问孩子喜欢生活在哪张照片里?孩子们当然愿意生活在现在的社区。

老师会接着告诉孩子,第一张照片是长辈们所经历的现实,他们用自己的双手一点一滴的建造了现在美丽的社区、美丽的家;就从这一点,你们就没有权利无缘无故对他们发威,向他们抱怨,因为你们现在的美好生活,都是他们带来的。从而树立孩子对长辈的崇敬和尊重。

随后,老师又展示了第三张照片,是一张未来社会的蓝图,也是孩子们最喜欢的一张。

老师会告诉孩子,这第三张照片的实现,就需要用自己的双手来建造,不能依赖长辈。这样,孩子在懂得了要爱长辈之后,又懂得了自己身上所肩负的重任,爱社区、爱国家。这种教育,潜移默化,陪伴孩子一生。

爱的教育,就是要以道德观念为基础,引导孩子理解爱,学会爱,懂得爱,珍惜爱。

爱的教育,应该从幼儿时期就开始。孩子在享受父母在之爱的同时,还要学习用爱回报父母,从小培养孩子孝敬父母、关爱家人的品格。

让孩子在爱的熏陶下逐步成长,形成完善的人格。

当他长大后,这种人格,会让他建立起充满和谐与友爱的氛围,能够在关键时刻舒缓自己的情绪,游刃有余的处理好自己的心情与起伏不定的人生现状。

爱的教育,要从什么地方入手呢?

1、建立“物——我”的关系

从幼儿时期就要让孩子体会到,世间万物存在都有道理。带着孩子爱护一草一木,守候大自然的变化,感受万物、体验万物。

让孩子逐步认识到,与自己生活息息相关的一切,都需要自己善待、守护。小到自己的玩具,大到身边的建筑;水中的小鱼,山上的花朵;都是值得自己好好对待的生命。

而这个世界,也因为自己的存在而多了一份美丽!

2、建立“人——我”的关系

天下父母都是无偿的爱着孩子,但同时要教会孩子懂得珍惜别人给予自己的爱,并学会回馈、给予别人爱。

所以,父母不要把爱当做一种自我的奉献和牺牲,而是要孩子体验到爱的美好,体会到父母的伟大与辛苦,让孩子对父母有尊敬之心,孺慕之情。

另外,人类不是独居动物,因此要重视培养孩子与其他人相处的能力。比如可以与同龄的小伙伴友好相处;知道主动照顾比自己弱小的弟弟妹妹;能够关心、理解他人,并愿意把自己的快乐分享。

在这个过程中,孩子可以体会到亲情和友情的美好,并且深深的意识到,自己的存在,对于父母、对于朋友,都是无从替代和无法缺少的。

3、建立“我——我”的关系

自我的认知,在有些孩子心中可能存在偏颇。

有些孩子会理所当然的认为自己是独一无二的,这个世界就要围着自己转的。

如果孩子有这样的想法,父母一定要先进行自我反思,是不是过于溺爱孩子?因为这样的孩子恰恰是最为脆弱的,一旦他们接受到现实的打击,自己的世界就会全盘崩溃。

有些孩子则会对自己的存在、自己的生命价值有没有意义而产生的质疑。

如果孩子有这样的想法,父母也要先从自己身上找原因,是不是对孩子要求过于苛刻,是不是总是带给孩子一些负面的影射。这样的孩子同样脆弱的不堪一击,在他们心中总是会不断的贬低自己,认为自己毫无存在的意义。

……

因此,父母要帮助孩子发展认识自我的能力。只有较为正确地认识了自我,才有可能更好地处理好自己与他人的关系。

父母不妨从尊重孩子、相信孩子,给他们适度的自由和自主抉择、自负其责的机会入手,逐步训练孩子正确的认识自己,既不骄傲自大,也不妄自菲薄;能够正确的看待成败得失,做到胜不骄败不馁,接人待物不卑不亢,落落大方。

为了让孩子能够更好地适应未来的社会,做强大的自己,就要让孩子从小懂得爱父母,爱家人,爱祖国,因为他们知道,他们所爱的,也是最爱他们的,是自己坚定不移的靠山,永远对自己不离不弃。

当孩子的心理素质在爱的熏陶下成长,他们也就学会了如何珍惜自己,如何不被眼前的困难所打倒。到他们长大成人,他们同样会有自信去建立更为友爱与和谐的社会。

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